January 27, 2014

Love Woes

I truly dislike stubborn guys! I met this guy about 2 years ago that I really like. We "dated" for a while and now it's not as rock solid. The thing is, we really connect when we are together and I could definitely see myself with him for a while. There's only oneeeeee problem.... he doesn't want a girlfriend :( :( :( ughhhh! I understand his reason behind this craycray idea but it still sucks. For the most part he treats me like a girlfriend when I'm with him, he's a really great friend, he's helped me SO MUCH as a person, and I know he cares for me.. but I also know it's not enough. 

It's so hard to move on from someone that thus far has been really good to you and makes you feel special when you've never really felt special before. It's even harder to realize that someone else is going to reap the benefits you worked so hard to get. I really don't know what to do at this point because I know no time soon is he going to want to commit and there's no guarantee I'd be the one he chooses buuuttt... I really like him. I don't know how some chicks can so easily walk away from what they want when its not right. I guess I just need to be stronger and learn to let my brain lead and my heart follow. 


  1. Try and date other people!! If he gets jealous and wants you to spend more time with him than go on dates with other guys, then you have more reason to stay friends with him. You can't let him drag you through it, because if he wants to always have you as just a friend, you might miss out on someone who can treat you just as special.

    1. Thanks for the advice! You're so right. I do want to date more because If I keep putting all my time and energy into him I will miss out. the problem is I'm a really shy person :( lol But I guess I'll just have to work on that.
      Thanks for stopping by my page!!


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